Creating more resilient
& peaceful families through change-oriented couples therapy.

In-person in PA and via telehealth for residents of MA.

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If you’re here, you’ve probably already tried many things to make your relationship work.

Perhaps despite your best efforts, you find yourself…

  • Not being able to communicate effectively with your partner

  • Feeling like you have grown apart or are living separate lives

  • Not feeling like a priority to your partner

  • Wishing you could go back in time

  • Feeling lonely, sad, angry, anxious, guilty or ashamed

  • Worrying that your relationship is too “far gone”

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I want you to know there is hope.

With the right approach and guidance, you can learn to be an agent of change in your relationship – to co-shape better interactions with your partner, to restore trust and intimacy with one another.

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How I Help

Over the years, I have worked with countless couples using a clinically-proven approach called EFT.

It helps couples to break out of negative communication patterns as well as:

  • Manage and express difficult emotions in relationship-promoting ways

  • Learn how to rely on one another for support and healthy dependency

  • Talk about challenges without resorting to conflict or distancing

  • And to be able to repair when the inevitable rupture does happen

  • Build a deep, lasting, more trustworthy connection

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When it comes to love relationships, the key to long-lasting connection is emotional intelligence.

This means understanding how our emotions (particularly unpleasant ones) drive us to stay open to our partners or self-protect when we feel insecure.

What is EFT?

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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples is a clinically proven approach to help you grow your emotional intelligence and reconstruct your intimate bond through more effective emotional relating and responsiveness.

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If you're like most couples, conflict can escalate so fast that it’s hard to know what the tension is about–or how to stop it.

Using EFT, we will slow down your interactions and map out the predictable pattern of your negative communication, and learn to conquer that cycle of disconnection together rather than blame each other.  We will work to understand the emotions and deeper relationship needs that drive this pattern and shape new ways of interacting that bring your partner closer to you.

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EFT can help you learn to:

  • Understand each person’s role in your relationship difficulties

  • Work together and be on each other’s side

  • Recognize the influence of past romantic/family attachments in your relationship style

  • Identify and manage overwhelming emotions

  • Create space in your conversations for vulnerability

  • Mend cracks in your foundation and repair deeper hurts

  • Connect with each other in more authentic, lasting ways

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Let’s Get Started

Step 01

REQUEST APPOINTMENT

Please complete my contact form to request an initial appointment for you and your partner.
Provide a general sense of what you are seeking and why, as well as your logistical needs. I typically respond to these requests within 1-2 business days. Once we have scheduled the consultation, you’ll get a secure link to my client portal to complete all needed forms before our first session.

Step 02

INITIAL COUPLES SESSION

At our first meeting, the three of us will discuss your perceptions of the relationship challenges, strengths, communication patterns, key relationship events, and goals. 

If you would like to continue, we will schedule an individual session for each person.

Step 03

INDIVIDUAL SESSIONS

In the second and third sessions, I will meet with you individually to gather more information about your personal relationships and the experiences that have shaped you in your closest bonds – how you relate to others around your feelings and deepest needs. We will begin to understand your attachment styles and how those are shaped in your past and present relationships. 

Step 04

FEEDBACK & GOAL PLANNING COUPLE’S SESSION

In this fourth session, I will meet with you as a couple to provide feedback on your unique communication cycle and my recommendations for treatment based on your goals and my clinical assessment. 

GOOD FAITH ESTIMATE

You are entitled to a Good Faith Estimate for the cost of your treatment.
To learn more click here.

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Frequently Asked Questions

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Have other questions?

Are you ready?

Get in touch today to book your initial consultation.